Birthday Behavior 12.27.14

I just thought I would share some beautiful photos from my birthday weekend. It was simply amazing, cute, calm and relaxed. As I reflect back over the year 2014 I realized I have so much to be grateful, thankful, and appreciative for. 2014 has been an awesome year, I mad some new friendships, embarked upon a new career, challenged love, and learned to love myself first! 

Feather Pink Top- Topshop
Black Disco Pants- American Apparel
Black Feather Necklace- Chatter Box

What Means The World To You

I know I do this all the time but you have to understand I'm an inspirational writer. I really have to be affected by something in order to write. A lot has changed in my life and it has become harder for me to explain my life and all that I have been up to. But in a quick synopsis I've just been working hard, learning, and adapting to the changes around me. I'm often surrounded by positive energy but somehow the connotation I have of certain expectations seem to affect me the most.

How can a person with so much to be thankful for let the simplest of things affect them, a perfectionist that's who! I wouldn't consider myself a perfectionist well, maybe I haven't came to the realization that I actually am. I tend to know how certain situations will play out, I call it my "been there, done that" theory. So, when things dont go the way I planned them to, I shut down immediately. I'm not sure why but I do and from there I struggle with channeling my negative energy into something positive and finding my happy space again. 

This has been an issue for me, a problem I struggle with. I'm working on it tho and I'll let you know how it goes. . . . .

Sunday Brunch

Flicks from my Labor Day Sunday in Brooklyn kicking it at a rooftop kickback! 

When Life Gives You Lemons..

I have been neglecting you I know, but honestly there hasn't been much to blog about. Well maybe I'm over exaggerating the situation, there has been plenty to discuss. I just haven't been in the mood to write. Im not sure why I go through these awful, awkward, writers block moments a lot. But besides my new business venture Chatter Box and working with Pusha Chix, life has been pretty pleasurable.

I took some time off to visit close friends and family in both DC and North Carolina for about two weeks. I enjoy moments like that, when I can travel away from the city to breath, to think and to relax clearly; it makes me a appreciate my life journey more.

I have a great deal of time on my hands this summer. Im looking forward to broadening my business, building new clientele, and expanding my portfolio. So if any one is interested in linking up, please do not hesitate to contact me.

BACK AT IT!!!

We did it again! The Pusha Chix team is still killing it! I did a exceptionally well on wardrobe if I do say so myself! And the girls kicked super ass in their performance.

I wanted the girls to look edgy and tough with a splash of sexy sprinkled on top! Their black knitted jerseys gave them edge, up until they swopped the jerseys for leather jackets, vest, and sequin studded gloves! Their final look consisted of them getting rid of their leather cover ups to teasing the crowd in bralettes, bustiers, pin up shorts, and fishnets!

How's that for performance attire?

Still need a clearer picture, check out the video below! 

Pusha Chix

I am now working with this incredible dance company Pusha Chix, as a wardrobe stylist. About two weeks ago I landed my first gig with them, at the Re-Living Color 90's themed party hosted by, Puma & Sassy of VH1's Black Inc Crew. Due to me working the event, I wasn't able to snag many behind-the-scenes photos but, I was able to record some really cool footage of the party. My video skills have improved a lot since "The Mannequins Around You" post! Check it out!                             

Want to learn more about Pusha Chix visit:

www.pushachix.com

bookpushachix@gmail.com 

Instagram: @Pushachix

Twitter: @PushaChix

Facebook: PushaChix

Let Me Explain

Wow, I feel like I haven't had a second to get my thoughts together. The past two weeks have been extremely time consuming. I haven't had a chance to think a-lot-of situations through. I'm a Capricorn, which means I'm a very structured person and I haven't been able to prioritize like I should. I have been collaborating on a few new projects that have been somewhat challenging. Challenging in a way, that has forced me to perform outside of my comfort zone, which is absolutely amazing! I would like to think that I have been cooking up something great for the future or summer maybe!

I really appreciate all of the feed back that I have been receiving! It amazes me every time someone tells me they have read Ghetto Children. My goal is to continue inspiring all of my readers! The year 2014 is all about self improvement, independence, and progression. 

I've learned that there are no specific guidelines to follow in order to obtain success. Most times we are searching for some outside connection to bring us closer to our dream. This way of thinking is totally unrealistic, no one can bring you closer to your dreams only you can do that! And those connections that your looking for, you've already found them. Your connections are those people you associate yourself with regardless, if it's on a daily basis or not. Make use of your surroundings and everyone around you then, watch how everything falls into place. 

Stylin' 5.5.14

In honor of Cinco De Mayo, I decided to rock something real chill. My "outfit-of-the-day" all ways reflects my mood-of-the-day. Can you guess how I was feeling yesterday?

Bucket Hat- Rainbow 

Bamboo Earrings- Chatterbox Accessories 

Jacket- Custom made from NYC designer

Black Sweater- American Apparel 

Spandex Leggings- Target

Red Flannel- Ralph Lauren

Dirty White Shoes- Chuck Taylor

The Come Up

New York City is full of opportunities. I'm deciding to tap into my entrepreneur instincts again. Remember when I was preparing for my transition to NYC and I sold just about everything I owned, including most of my clothes and shoes? I set up shop right on campus, in the living room of my dorm, and in the lobby of my residence hall. I moved to NYC on a whim, so I had to do what I had to do; I'll never forget those days. 

I've decided to dive back into my hustlers mentality. This is the mindset of the 2014 young professional. Everyone is capable of attaining success. I don't mean to sound too cliche but it takes hard work, and extreme dedication. It also takes patience, know that nothing happens over night.  As well as perseverance, regardless of the long hours and sleepless nights, you have to persevere and continue to push yourself to the limit. 

I've always wanted something of my own, something that would leave a lasting impression on others. I wanted to produce a brand for women that inspire to inspire. I want to represent this new culture of women with exceptionally high standards for themselves. Women with confidence, women that embrace their colorful sexualities, women who accept change, and views her failures as life lessons. 

I'm taking on a new challenge in producing my own accessories brand, Chatterbox Accessories. I'm just in the beginnings stages of everything, but I'm still very proud of the outcome. Click on the links below to view and purchase daring accessories!

Shop Chatterbox Accessories

Store: chatterbox.storenvy.com

Instagram: @shopchatterbox

Gmail: shopchatterbox@gmail.com

Confetti Men's 2014 Spring Collection

Last Sunday, I was invited to Duckie's exclusive Spring 2014 Men's Presentation. I was so anxious because I'd never experienced a fashion presentation before. Guest were encouraged to stand up and feel garments for texture and quality. We were also asked to take photos as the male models graced the walkway. This event was a new experience and I was introduced to a more sophisticated-urban-style of men's fashion, take a look....

What I Wore..

Kelly Green Sued-Felt Mortocylcle Jacket/ H&M

Plaid School Scort/ Top Shop

White V-Neck T-Shirt/ Forever21

Black Opaque Tights/ American Apparel 

Black Anckle Pointed Toe Boots/ Call It Spring

Silver Tin Lunch Box/ Vintage 

Come Get This Work

I understand that nothing comes easy and life would be a lot less complicated if I just gave up on my dreams. As an outsider looking in, it seems as if everyone is making things pop for themselves, without any kind of hardships or struggles. But I'm learning not to compare myself to everyone else. What I've chosen to do instead, is to look at their success as a tool for motivation. 

Why should I spend any of my time being angry or saddened by an opportunity that wasn't for me? 

There is no use in doubting myself and strenghts just because of what life has provided for someone else. I'm also learning that time is truly of the essence. I've always thought that the successful never slept. I thought it was a requirement to overwork yourself night and day in order to be on top. But how one obtains success is totally up to the individual. I'm learning to spend my time on things that matter and that will only help further my career. I'm only committing to things that will enhance my skills and perfect my craft. 

Time is truly of the essence, so stop wasting yours on things that do not matter! 

Young and Successful

I managed to score some major girl talk with Lenora, founder of Naked Lady Cosmetics. We discussed the start up of her new business venture and her daily aspirations. Lenora a native of D.C., grew up with a hustler’s mentality. She's collected profit from just about everything including fashion apparel, to selling luxury alcoholic beverages, and now owning her own cosmetic line, all by the tender age of 23.

Check out the highlights below:

(Girl Ryann) What is Naked Lady Cosmetics?

(Lenora) It is a brand made up of sexy all natural hand made lipsticks. 

(Girl Ryann) When did you realize that you wanted to start your own business?

(Lenora) I’ve always wanted to become an entrepreneur but Malacka Reed inspired me to create my own make-up line.

(Girl Ryann) What do you enjoy most about owning your own business?

(Lenora) I enjoy making the lipstick, pleasing the customers. I like talking to women and getting their opinion on things. I like being able to do stuff on my own, being my own boss, and not having anyone to report to.

(Girl Ryann) How would you describe the Naked Lady customer?

(Lenora)  She is bold, sexy, and she’s just a boss!

(Girl Ryan) What are some of the downfalls to owning your own business?

(Lenora) To be honest I’m making everything myself. I’m only one person, I don’t have any help and its a lot of pressure to get the product out to the customer. But I’m actually communicating with someone now for a future business partnership in New York City.

(Girl Ryann) Do you believe that relationships are important in establishing your own business?

(Lenora) Definitely yes, if you don’t network you will never get any where in life. You have to be open to mingling and meeting new people and that’s with life period. 

(Girl Ryann) What is the best advice you've been given so far?

(Lenora) My mother has been influential in giving me great advice. She told me not to fear anything, to believe in the most high and to let the most high guide me, to let go of all my fears and go after what I really want. I’m young, so if I mess up I can move on to something else. I've learned just to keep trying even if I fail.

(Girl Ryan) What are some methods or strategies you use to continue to stay focus?

(Lenora) Working out, swimming, and walking all help give me a peace of mind. Talking to the most high helps clear my head. I also enjoy spending time with my family, we have family dinners every other Sunday too.

 

Up and Coming Events! ! 

• Lenora now has partnership with Union Town Bar and Grill in Washington, DC. She will be vending there every Friday from 5-6pm.

• Lenora has also been added to this list of vendors for "I Pledge to Hustle” fashion event on May 15, 2014 in Atlanta Georgia. 

For more information regarding Naked Lady Cosmetics visit:

Website: nakedladycosmetics.bigcartel.com

Email: nakedladycosmetic@gmail.com

Instagram: nakedladycosmetics 

Know Yourself

There will always be haters; never let them distract you from your hustle. When others see that you are following your personal legend they will constantly offer unwanted advice. Somehow they will find a way to voice their opinion of what's possible or impossible for you to accomplish or what you should be doing. Whatever the case may be, never let a hater’s comments effect you, success is a road that can be traveled many ways.

If your first step towards your personal legend does not bring you closer to your objective, its okay.  However, this step plays an extremely important role in the development process of your future successes, regardless of the outcome. Think about it, what if you hadn’t made that move? What if you hadn't taken that risk? You wouldn't know all you know today, you wouldn't be as successful, nor would you be able to speak positively about your life's progression.  

To be a goal chaser, one has to be willing to take risk, intelligent risk. I am a thrill seeker; I love to take risk. The feeling of uncertainty drives me madly insane but it is also what keeps me going. My soul purpose in life at this moment is to break into the elite world of fashion. I know I am getting closer to my dream but I never know what tomorrow may bring. The feeling of uncertainty is caused from the risks I take in life. Although I have no clue of what the future holds, I know I am on the right path. I’m just a few steps away from fulfilling my personal legend. 

No Dull Moments

The past two weeks have been hectic. I haven't been managing my time properly and work has been consuming most of my personal life. But last Sunday, I experienced something so surreal. 

I had the pleasure of working with luxury accessory designer Laurel De Witt and celebrity socialite Legendary Damon. Damon's Lux Ball/Birthday Celebration Extravaganza was highly anticipated and majorly exclusive for the elite.

The team and I completed wardrobe looks with metal plaited arm and neck pieces, over sized body chains/shackles and enormous head crowns linked to chain tassels and metal coins all from Laurel De Witt's newest collection.  When styling loud statement pieces such as Laurel's it is always best to dress the look as simple but daring at the same time. It's quite easy to ruin an outfit like this just by outfit collision. What's outfit collision? Outfit collision is the cause of pairing two loud pieces together creating a fatal clash, committing wardrobe suicide. 

However, we decided to pair Laurel's accessories with slim fitting lace dresses, delicate lace two piece crops with matching bottoms, silk V line dresses, and floor length tutu skirts. The models wore smoky eyeshadow overtop of their eyes, balanced out with nude and pastel lip colors. Their ponytails were snatched high and long. Some wore dramatic crimp waves, and soft dramatic curls as well. 

To the Self Liberated Woman

The evaluation of WO-MAN is at it's peak or rather it's beginning stages. I like to think that we have changed tremendously, but only for the better. This new breed of woman is deadly, she is definitely someone to be afraid of. 

This new woman, 2014 woman, she is no joke. She was created with eyes capable of reading into another man's soul. She's born with an immaculate understanding for life. She is strongly oppionated and has so much more to prove. 

She is afraid of falling and transforming into a failure. She never takes no for an answer and views life as one big gamble. She's not afraid to risk it all in order to succeed. Women, this new breed of woman is a lone survivor, her strength is unattainable to man. 

She takes pride in making herself happy, she no longer turns to anyone else for self acceptance. She knows she's beautiful and she doesn't need validation from anyone. She's confident in her own skin, she embraces her sexuality, she is sexually liberated and doesn't care what anyone thinks about it. 

Woman, this new breed of woman is fierce and she knows it. She's morally correct in her own way. 

Money is the Anthem of Success

But Patience is the Key to Success. . .

I'm at a really happy place in my life! I'm now working for a temp agency as a substitute teacher. I prefer this temporary role over a full time position because of the flexibility I have over my work schedule and my ability to work with children again. 

Yes, of course, I'm still involved in fashion! I'm currently juggling between the two careers. When I'm not subbing with the temp agency, I'm out at the office working with 4 Seasons Style Management. I like to keep busy, I feel as though I accomplish a lot when I am active. 

In order to get the proper experience needed to prosper in my career I have to work for others. While doing this, I must also keep in mind that my first priority is me! I am my number one client, if I don't take care of myself, who will? 

It's is so easy to get caught up in the fast life and expecting everything to come quick. I've realized that in this business patience is truly a virtue and your reputation is everything! No, really your reputation is all you have. Everything travels by word of mouth in this industry so I maintain my professionalism at all times. 

So, if it's what you want and things just aren't working out how you expected, continue to hold on. It will get better, remember patience and faith will bring you much success. Stay focus and grind like it's no tomorrow! 

My Wife and Kids

It's always nice to reminince on the past. I enjoy looking back on life and remembering all of the good times I shared, with some of the most amazing people in the world! This past weekend I had a wonderful opportunity to reconnect with some old friends. We celebrated the birth of a new life, new beginnings and our newly found happiness. 

I never knew how much fun a baby shower could be, I guess everything is a celebration when your hanging out with best friends like mine! Prior to the baby shower, we all went shopping for some fantastic gifts together. We were so shocked, we couldn't believe we were actually shopping for baby shower gifts. It was also a little overwhelming if you ask me. I was amazed and I am still amazed at the women, wives, and adults we have grown to be since college. 

I love to reminance over times like these to see how far I've come. I imagine myself growing older each day but sistuations like this will always make me more aware. No matter how far you go in life or how much success you consume, it's good to reference back to your friends, family, and whatever situations that may have turned you into the person you are today.